Thursday was spent being oriented to the next ten days in
Ngaoundéré and learning about what the cultures of our host families would be
like and how we should behave in these Muslim households. I felt somewhat better
– I had slept well – but still had a fever, which worsened as the day wore on.
Before dropping us off at our host families’ houses, we
headed about twenty minutes outside of Ngaoundéré to a traditional healer. It
ended up being a school were people come to study traditional medicine. They
explained that any person of any religion, race, or gender can come study,
though we only saw Muslim men. They claimed to be able to cure kidney stones,
stomach pains, impotency, irregular menstrual cramps, yeast infections,
HIV/AIDS, charms, cancer, discharge (this was a fun one to try and have them
explain), liver troubles, pregnancy issues, typhoid fever, hemorrhoids, and
tuberculosis. They also were able to tell fortunes, which intrigued all of us.
After the presentation we walked around the property a bit,
so that the men could show us the medicinal plants they grew. I imagined a
garden with the plants clearly marked, but I should have remembered that just
because this was alternative medicine, it wasn’t Amherst, it was still
Cameroon. We rounded the corner of a house and what appeared to be a weed
growing out of the foundation was said to cure kidney stones. We walked down a
muddy path to a dirt clearing where children in shmutzik clothing were milling
about. A few patches of green showed through the dirt and one of these was
another plant with medicinal qualities.
The tour ended back at the pharmacy/consultation room. For
1000 CFA ($2) we could ask several questions about our futures that one of the
healers would answer. I think nearly all of us decided to go for it. Enok, the
SIT homestay coordinator in Ngaoundéré sat in the room with us to translate our
questions into Fulfulde and to translate the healer’s Fulfulde into French. Some
of our fortunes were a bit more generic than others, and yet some where fairly
specific. MB was told that if he went into politics his name would be come
known. DJ was told that she would become someone famous and her name would be
on television. AM was told that she would work in the area of finance and would
be successful in her job. I was told that I would work with canaux (canals – thankfully I knew this
word in French because of our scintillating tour of the canals of Valence in
2009).
I expressed my surprise and attempted to ask a clarifying
question, wondering if perhaps this may be canals in a metaphorical sense –
flows of people or bridges between people, etc. Enok translated, that while I
may not work on the technical side of canals, I would definitely work in either
the administrative or financial side of canal building. And I would also
probably spend a lot of time living outside of my country (at least there was
one thing that was correct!).
I also asked about CPL, especially considering it was her
birthday. I explained that she had been sick this fall – had had surgery – and
asked what would happen to her in the future. He told me that I should stop
worrying, she would not be sick anymore, and that she is very intelligent and
was going to do great things one day and we would all be proud of her. I
believe that this is true.
In terms of relationships – he told me that there was
someone who loves me right now, and when I return to my country, he will ask me
to marry him. AT was told that she has yet to meet “the one,” which she found
reassuring. Lookman was told that a white girl in the States loves him. I guess
sexual orientation is something the healer cannot see. We were all entertained
by these responses, and decided that the $2 we spent was probably worth it.
I asked Bobo if they knew if the healer had said correct
things to students in the past. He replied that in 2008 the healer had been
very sure that Obama would not win. I guess that bodes well for the probability
my working with canals in the future.
We were dropped off at our families around 4. I live very
close to where we had been staying and to the Norwegian Center where we will
have some of our classes. I have a Maman who is quite young – maybe
mid-thirties – and who has a fifteen-year-old daughter. Both are stunningly
beautiful. My Maman’s husband is a truck driver and returns to the house only
occasionally. I learned this before arriving and was relived that the house
would be quiet and peaceful. And yet I should have remembered that this is
Cameroon. Of course the house wouldn’t be empty or quiet.
There are easily over 20 people living in this compound. (My
Maman does not know the number so was unable to give me an answer). There is
another woman who lives here who is 28 and who has four children, the oldest of
whom is 12. I think that her husband lives here as well and his children from
his first wife (who lives in Yaoundé) live here as well. On top of that there
is a whole room of twenty-something year-old boys who live across from me. I
was given my Maman’s house to live in while I am here. It is really lovely with
a salon – empty except for one light bulb, but at least it’s carpeted – and a
bedroom whose light does not work. The bed is big, though – which I guess
doesn’t actually matter that much since I’m sleeping in my mosquito net. There
is also a latrine with an eight-inch diameter hole in the floor. The latrine is
somewhere around 60 feet deep. I cannot even explain how far down it is. Only
that there is a significant amount of time between when one starts going to the
bathroom and when one can hear anything hit the bottom of the latrine.
(I just need to mention that someone in the compound is
playing Basshunter VERY LOUDLY right now. What a world.)
I went walking with one of the sons of the woman who lives
in Yaoundé last night. We saw the Lamidat – the palace of the Lamido or
traditional ruler of Ngaoundéré. His palace and mosque are beautiful. From
there we headed to the sheep market.
(Just finished Camilla, and Boten Ana is starting.)
Today is a national holiday in Cameroon called the Fête du
Mouton. School and work are cancelled and the tradition is to sacrifice a
sheep. The holiday commemorates the story of Abraham agreeing to sacrifice Isaac
on the mountaintop, and then God stopping him at the last moment and telling
him to sacrifice a sheep instead. It is a Muslim holiday that the whole country
celebrates. Before we left Yaoundé earlier this week, flocks of sheep had
already begun entering the city waiting to be sold to people for the fête. The
sheep were EVERYWHERE in Ngaoundéré yesterday. It was actually quite upsetting
for me to watch all of these men hauling sheep home and to see the fear in the
sheep’s eyes as they were torn from their flocks. I wanted to share with them
that their lives were about to get a lot worse tomorrow. I saw one escaped sheep tearing down the
street, trailing its lead, and men chasing after it. (I was rooting for the
sheep in this one.) A small sheep supposedly costs about 50,000 CFA ($100).
*Returning to finish up this post after having lunch.
Before I finish this once again lengthy post, I just want to
share the similarities I am feeling between this holiday and a Jewish holiday
that we would have celebrated at the Ks’ in West Hartford when we were younger.
Everyone is dressed nicely today, the house is clean, and food is being cooked
all day long. Neighbors, family, and friends have been dropping in since this
morning and everyone is so happy, celebrating a holiday where the purpose is to
spend time with your family and eat. Sounds like every holiday I’ve ever grown
up with. The way that the mothers keep coming in and out, some with their kids,
some without, some eating, some bringing food, reminds of a Jewish holiday when
everyone goes out walking and stops at neighbors’ and friends’ to wish them a
happy holiday and just to visit. The sense of community is really beautiful and
I realize that is something that has been missing from my experiences in
Dschang and Yaoundé.
Having friends at one’s house – especially for teenagers – is
really not a thing in Cameroon, or at least not in the Central, Western and
Southern regions. And yet I have probably seen well over ten different friends
come through the house today. I have not yet shared with my family that I am
Jewish and I don’t know if I will. I do know, however, that the similarities
between religions – and especially religions that are so intricately
intertwined with ethnicities and cultures – are numerous. Even if everything
about this life here feels so different (including the latrine in my house in
which I was accompanied by fifteen cockroaches when I used it last night),
there are basic values inherent to a religious community that feel comforting and
familiar.